As one who has faced daily challenges of Learning Disabilities (Dyslexia) and ADHD, I know first-hand that your kids need to feel empowered to help themselves overcome learning challenges.
But my mom has taught me that sometimes parents don’t know how to talk to their kids about their ADHD and/or Learning Disabilities (LD).
So, if you want to empower your kids to believe in what they CAN do, let me help you out, kid to kid, in just 5 minutes! If you’re not sure what to say, show this video to your child, and read the Manifesto together (below). It’s a start!
Video on Overcoming LD
When children are diagnosed with learning disabilities, they often experience uncertainty and confusion. They look to their parents for confidence, even though you’re still trying to figure it out, too!
- Take the time to sit down with your child and talk through a diagnosis. It can help them (and you!) understand how their brain works, and what it means for their future.
- Your child will feel your support. Knowing you’re both on the same page can give your child the confidence to share their story.
A Manifesto from a Teen with Learning Challenges
I wrote this manifesto for a Literature class my Senior year in High School, and my mom worked with me to edit it for publication for ImpactADHD. We hope you can use this to inspire your kids!! It’s straight from the mind and keyboard of a teenager who struggled with Dyslexia, ADHD and Anxiety (and still do). Names haven’t been changed to protect any innocents, but there was a lot of spelling corrected!
To My Fellow Learning Challenged Kids,
I have a simple message for you: with acceptance, communication, and support you can overcome the limitations of your learning differences. You can read on, or watch the video I created above – whichever learning style works best for you!
I know from personal experience how much you have suffered. I have been in the cave of sorrow that you think you discovered. I know how alone you feel, and how much you put yourself down. I have been told, and have told myself, that I am stupid and can’t do anything.
I, however, have also made it out of that h#**hole. I have embraced my differences, my challenges, my diverse outlooks on the world. And I have turned them into strengths and positive qualities, rather than attributes to hide.
It is a sad truth: some people go through life thinking they are stupid because they have learning challenges that prevent them from learning the way others do. In “Is It ADHD, a Reading Disability or Both?” Jennifer Hasser explains that kids with undiagnosed learning challenges may feel embarrassed or inferior to their peers. These kids are stripped of their opportunity to contribute to their families, their communities — and even to the world — because they are not able to live up to their full potential.
They have not learned how to learn.
My peers, it is never too late!! You have a chance to help yourselves. You have the time, while still in school, to gain the knowledge expected of you by society. Your job is to learn HOW to learn the material they teach in school.
You are in the company of brilliance.
This is easier said than done, but undoubtedly doable. There are many success stories out there, and many successful people who have learned to manage their learning differences. For example, Steve Jobs was dyslexic and still managed to found Apple. Henry Ford was also dyslexic and designed the first working automobile. If you still aren’t convinced, Albert Einstein and Thomas Edison both suffered from learning challenges and were still extremely successful in life. The list goes on and on. You are in the company of brilliance.
So how can you overcome your circumstances and learn how to learn? There is a very simple path with only 4 steps.
Learn How to Learn in 4 Steps
1. Acknowledge that you have learning differences/disabilities/challenges, (whatever word you want to use is fine).
“Denial” is not just a river in Egypt. You must leave the state of denial before you drown. Pretending there are no challenges makes it especially hard to learn to manage them and overcome them. EVERYone has something challenging in their lives – at least you know what yours is!
2. Become confident and proud of how your brain works, no matter how different it is.
Instead of seeing your learning differences as something bad, look for a new perspective. Your different wiring offers you a new lens to look at the world. When you accept your learning differences as a part of you, you won’t be angry and embarrassed. If you think about it, your’e not embarrassed because your eyes are blue or your hair is brown, right? Your Learning difference is just part of who you are. It is time to stop being ashamed about how your brain works. I guarantee there’s something about it that’s really cool!
3. Actively try to find ways to learn.
There are many ways that you can learn to work through your learning differences. You must be willing to ask for help and accept help offered to you. There are strategies that are really effective – but only if you are willing to try them. You (and your parents) can get a lot of information and help from: Learning Disabilities Association of America, International Dyslexia Association, and ImpactADHD. But you’ve gotta be willing to accept help!
4. Finally, and in some ways most importantly: know that you are not alone.
There are tons of people out there who are in the same situation as you, if not a worse one. There are even kids whose parents don’t tell them they have learning differences. Be thankful that you are aware that your brain is wired more creatively than most people’s – understanding that will improve your ability to learn.
Now, I know that this is not the only way to overcome your learning challenges. I’m sure there are many other suggestions, so I’m not saying that it’s “my way or the high way.”
BUT… I am saying that this is an effective approach to overcome your learning disabilities. In fact, this is how I overcame mine.